M secure with what I wear
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Fashion Faux Pas Redeux, I think not
You speaka de French?
So since June the wife and me have been learning French at Alliance Francaise, first thing that struck me when I started was the number of people who were studying French. All classes were full and when we eventually changed classes to the weekend, there were more students. Overall, it has been really fun to learn French, and what makes it more fun it I am doing it with my best friend. We are still a distance from fluency of course but we are getting there. Languages have not always been my forte but I think I will make the extra effort because of my French roots and more so to have a secret language.
M parle français
Monday, November 10, 2008
Subtle Hints I Know Not
I literally became down at the fact that I did not have one. I mean I couldn't sleep even. I mean come on it's a phone dah and I started noticing everyone having one. I was obsessed.
So my wonderful and awesome wife got the hint and ventured into Lucky Plaza and got me a black market iPhone. Eventually she saw how much of an awesome and life changing device it was and got one herself. Even kids are usin'em now.
iPhone M
Friday, November 07, 2008
Money
Or is it the need for a sense of fulfilment or worse is it for greed and power? My initial years working were for power and the need to show everyone what I am made off. Truly, I admit it but now for me money is a means to live a comfortable life.
I do not love it nor do I care too much about it than I become bothered. I used to be but no longer. My God has blessed me beyond my expectations and He will continue to bless me in His usual way.
M blessed
Thursday, November 06, 2008
Negativity Ignorance
Ok, I'm sure my throng of fans is sick of my India subjective posts; this is will be last for this period. The first time I went to India, my mother told me about the poverty there and told me that India despite being such a beautiful place can be rather heart wrenching when observing the poverty especially the plight of children. So she told me, to ignore it, as there is nothing we can do about it. When in India; ignore the negativities and focus of the positives that is usually the advice they give to travelers.
And just like any trip, the poverty was evident; nothing unusual from my previous sojourns. But there was a particular scene that I think will not leave my mind. In my car being driven in aircon and on the sidewalk I was saw a young mother with her two kids, a boy probably aged 2 and a girl aged 4. They were sitting on the concrete sidewalk. The boy was not wearing any clothes yet they all sat on the pavement in the hot sun and mum was talking to another mum with one kid.
What got me was the 4 year old girl, dressed in a filthy dress and as she sat there she was nodding off could be from the exhaustion or just could be from the fact that no 4 year old should be where she is. What would normally be a comical and a cute sight of a kid nodding off, was heart breaking to me. I simply could not bring my camera out of my bag to photograph this site even though I had the time to do so.
So regarding what my mum said; is there really nothing we can do. Or is this just a way to be ignorant of the situation. Not sure why this picture suited.
M wondering.
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Mumbai Maddness
The traffic was a key culprit but more so was the unexpected travel arrangements that were sprung on me. A detour was needed and this significantly compromised our exit strategy resulting us to be stuck in an impossible jam that only Mumbai could muster.
The so close yet so far away feeling was there and at times we felt we should just get out of the car and make a run for it. But some heroic driving towards the end managed us to get there before the checkin counters closed. Only just I must add!
M boarding - - Praise the Lord!
Comfort Food
No this is not another post about food as you might think; my avid fans know me better than to be so obvious. But like everyone, there are times when I get down, lonely, and sleepless. So rather than turning to food, I turn to my idiot box, more like beloved box. Yes yes it's my television and for me this is my escape, my comfort. So what does this self confessed couch potato like to watch well other than the usual favorite of Smallville, Greys, Stargate, Prison Break, Entourage and a couple of others there are some new shows worth checking out.
Weeds is particularly good, Dexter is everyone's favorite serial killer, Californication for some skin and True Blood for an interesting twist to vampires. This has kept me company for the past few hours of sleeplessness leading up to my car to take me to Mumbai and eventually home to my girl.
M coming home.
More blokes

Rebellion well perhaps. India is the best place for portraiture photography. But I have seen a lost of the innocence and the greater awareness to the surroundings. Five years ago they will be rushing to you to have their photos taken, now apparently they'll beat you up for fear they will morph their heads onto some obscene pictures.
Sorry lah..not my kinda thing...
M photo
Haiizz
After posting all the pictures below, I realise that Blogger.com renders pictures really badly. The quality of these precious images looks crap and the true emotive conveyance is lost. Oh well, take my word for it lah, they are great pictures.
M pixelated.
White Boats
In the sky
Don't take pictures of people
What?? But that is what I do best and my love of photography comes from the fact that I can capture people when in their natural elements basically being themselves and going about their own business. Did I listen?? Well eventually but this was taken before I was warned. Perhaps not my favourite but one that I like a lot. Sometimes the best shots are the ones that looked posed but are not.
M
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Online Again
Back in Hinjewadi
As the week starts we are back in Hinjewadi, which is where our Tech Park and our partner's office is located. This IT Park is the first of 3 phases were some ultra modern and stunning building housing 1000s, yes 1000s, of engineers. This being a relatively new place there is still quite a bit of development required so the usual contrast still exists where you see country against modernism. Another good thing is that my trip is at its tail end and I am looking forward to going home. To make things worse, we had to make some last minute changes and are now waitlisted on the ideal flight and confirmed on the not so. Oh well the joys of business travel.
M waitlisted
Cheap but Good
I have found that Indians being a literally expressive race have an unsurprisingly great selection of authors and the number of Indian Booker Prize winners to tantalize the avid reader. And of course there is R.K. Narayan who is one of my favorite Indian authors. My total selection was 15 books, yeah excessive you may say, at least I have got my reading for the next 2 years sorted out.
M Booked
Monday, November 03, 2008
Running on Empty
Initially I meant the above picture for my previous post on Glorious Food, but since I have not had Internet connection for a few days, I felt that I can use this picture better for this post. If you noticed something about this picture, it shows some of the glorious food that India has to offer and I feel fortunate to have this opportunity to travel for work. However, there is one down side here to business travel. If you have keen eyes, you can see amongst the savories there is an empty chair.
Many a times, meals are eaten alone. It can get lonely as one of my first posts motioned eating alone can be uplifting but if it is done on a regular basis it can get depressing. I apologies for the somber post despite the uplifting picture, but I miss my wife bottom-line, especially over the past weekend. She is my usual makan kaki, and this time the empty chair is a tribute to my one and only.
M missing you.
Saturday, November 01, 2008
Food glorious food
Yeah the foods dirty, it's not cooked properly, it's not fresh or it's not beef it's actually dog are some of the terms I heard being tossed around.
I disagree!
Food here is wonderful. The flavours are amazing and if you love Indian food then this place would be heaven. But strong ceaveat - EAT WITH MODERATION.
Overeating is usually the cause for stomach issues and if you ever do get food poisoning it's probably because you've drunk contaminated water. So stick with bottled water or what they call here as Bisleri. So travel without fear and enjoy.
M eating
(pics to follow as soon as I get a proper wifi; using illegal wifi at a shopping centre)
Friday, October 31, 2008
Fashion Faux Pas
I managed through the first day with my extremely tight fitting pants, but on the second day it proved too much and I resorted to this fashion faux pas. Yes pink shirt, black tie and grey Diesel jeans. I looked like Hunter, who was the lead role in a 80s police TV drama played by Fred Dryer but fat and minus the badge and gun.
Bottom line is I need to get myself to a gym and get serious about getting back into shape. Yes wife, this will make you happy.
M weightwatching
Thursday, October 30, 2008
St Laurn Suites
I have to say that this hotel, or service apartment is more than what I expected. As always, the outside part of the hotel and the inside part are worlds apart. But this hotel is quite far out. If you look carefully, behind the bed is a transparent wardrode which has the bathroom and toilets behind it. The left corner picture is the entrance way to the bathroom. Top right corner is the kitchen with bar counter in foreground. What's missing is the couch and coffee table - it's there but I didn't take a picture of it. Bottom right is the swanky lobby. Not my idea of an Indian hotel. Impressed.
M white out.
Mandatory Horn
When the lights go green at a traffic junction in a matter of milliseconds the horns sound urging the guys in front to get a move on. It's almost cultural than precautionary.
But not just that, there is a sort of a parade when the lights are red. All sorts of vendors come onto the streets peddling their wares. Magazines, books (I mean actual novels), whistles, rags, ballons, nick nacks and the occasional beggar are some of what's on offer; well that's what I've seen so far. Such contrasts of people. And when the lights go green the horns blare.
M astounded
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Cinemathique up 10ks
Even drones can fly away
The queen is their slave
Taken from Fight Club. This movie explores our inner Tyler Durdans. It's a very different movie which does not explore a standard Hollywood movie storyline.
Perhaps that is why it is one of those movies that can be watched over and over without getting old. Cult movie. Key take away is "Stop trying to control everything and let go!"
It was this or Mamma Mia. I tried and didn't get pass the first 15 minutes.
M Krisflied
India calling
Being someone who grew up ashamed of being Indian because of the stereotyping, as I have gotten older the heritage has hit a chord more so when I visited which I think every Indian should.
I love the country because of it's simplicities and chaos. The sense of calm and at the same time vibrancy. It's quite unique. I hope to capture that on "film" in the coming days when time permits. I am there on business you know.
M travelling
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Whattha Bargain!
Unfortunately, I can't bring myself to buying a pair of shoes for $200+. So just my luck that I managed to find a warehouse sale at Suntec, where I got these babies at 40 bucks! Whattha Bargain!
M Onitsuka
Monday, October 27, 2008
A day with the girls
They had such a great time and for SK and me, it was great to see them having so much fun.
After the bears, they voted for Swensens where the fun continued, literally. Thinking that they were tired out they continued for a full frame of bowling afterwhich they persuaded us to sleepover at our place. For the two adults it was laughs all the way. Looking forward to the next outing.
Quality Time
I love to travel don't get me wrong but I usually end up missing my wife terribly and almost miserable by trip's end. Well same for her as well.
So as I embark on my trip we have nailed down some quality time together. All day together doing well basically nothing much other than eating, a massage and just being with each other. It's cool when quality time equals to doing nothing but just being together.
M Loved.
Friday, October 24, 2008
F1 2008 at an end

So for the fourth year in a row the championship has gone down to the final race of the season. Well the first two years, 2005 and 2006 it, was not down to the wire. But last year's race at Interlagos was a cracker and I hope this year's one will be the same too. But as the season has progressed on I guess for me personally, I have been a little disappointed with Ferrari. They have given away the championship this year with their pit stop shenanigans and lopesided strategies. They are essentially one driver team, just like all other top teams as well. Problem is that this year the two drivers in their teams are doing pretty badly the same way.
But my revelation this year is Alonso. I mean I disliked this guy with a vengeance during the 2005 and 2006 season (read my old blog posts), and sort of felt pity on him in 2007 when it was clear the favoritism to Lewy. But this year I think he has shown his mettle and has delivered the results. Two wins in a row, in a lesser car. Previously only two drivers, I can think of have done that, Schumacher and Senna. Not many other drivers have done that consistently.
Another revelation was Ferrari's President, Luca's criticism of the Singapore GP (my home GP) as a circus because of the safety car's usage. I guess the Italians have never really been good losers and Ferrari is the worst losers. So my love of Ferrari is waning as it did for Mclaren Honda when Senna left the team.
So ideal scenario will be,
- Lewy does something stupid and Ferrari does a stuner and Massa wins as Kimi did last year
- Alonso announces his move to Ferrari, with Kimi going on sabbatical
- No sliverware for the British which is always good.
M Hopeful.
[picture credit: Getty Images]
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Irony
It's funny how life works itself. My previous post was talking about how to not let our hearts be troubled and not let fear in but almost immediately after I posted this (well perhaps a day or so) some fearful news came my way. Thanks be to God that I was able to cling on to His promises and was able to ride through. So since last Friday I have been having a feeling like something was stuck in my throat. Not a bone that normally will have a piercing pain but more of a lump in my throat. It bothered me for the next few days and then the excessive hiccups started. When they came they were painful and my entire body would quiver, this was accompanied by more painful swallowing and heartburn.
Went to see a doctor on Monday after some scolding from the concerned wife and went on a course of antibiotics and told by Wednesday if no improvement a referral to a specialist would be prudent. So I patiently took my meds and waited for the recovery that did not come. So on Wednesday, I did what I NEVER do, but I was bored and in a long meeting. So I entered my symptoms "difficulty swallowing hiccups" into my Google Bar and stumbled into another colossal dumb move on my part. There it was "Symptoms of Esophageal Cancer". My heart sank as I read the article as out of the 7 symptoms listed I was experiencing 5 of them. Fear followed swiftly and my rejection of this "report" followed more swiftly after. I was not the same for the rest of the day but was putting my "preaching" into practice.
So on Thursday, after a quick referral and specialist consultation, from a guy who resembled Mr. Burns from the Simpsons, who I now affectionately refer to as "Mr. EEEEEEeeeee", the all clear was given. Praise the Lord! What I have now is gastro oesophageal reflux (acid reflux) which is easily fixed by eating smaller sized meals (should fit into my non existent diet plan).
So there you have it, life and its many ironies, but more inportantly God's favour as always being ever-present in our lives. So after this we know now that we are being prepared for something big and great. Hooray for the TWINS!
M expectant!
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
In days such as these, there are so many things that can bring trouble to our hearts. No I am not talking about relationship causing heartache but everything. Stress, Anxiety, Anger, Frustration, Sadness, Sickness, Financial woes, etc, etc…the list goes on and on. There are more terms coined for negativities in life than there are positivity. As such the common result is we are fearful. Fear grips us in so many ways, when you know you are now going to have enough in the bank to pay the bills, when you think your partner is not where he/she should be or when you are heading for a deadline at work, but you have not started. What is more disturbing now is that the fear is gripping people who are even younger, it scary.
When such fear grips me I like to say to myself, "Peace…Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you… Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." It may sound rather simple but if you settle down for a minute and let these words sink in you feel a calm coming over you. It is as simple as that! Most of the fear that we face is self inflicted, step out of fear and into Peace… When fear normally grips you repeat these words and allow the words to overpower you and do not let the fear grip you.
Peace…Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you… Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.J14:27
M not troubled. [Photo credit Getty Images]
Announcement girl
She's at it again. Announcement girl, I like to call her. Its 12.30am and she is analyzing away looking at some company's stock crafting the words to her report. My little tireless worker, who I admire so much. Don't work too hard, get good rest but she keeps at it till the day is done…
My old room
It was a place of security where I shed tears, shared laughs with my friends and family, it was a place I ran to, my refuge. Do I miss it? Well no, not really. I am in love with my new home in Jalan Kayu. But I do love to reminisce of the carefree times that I spent in that room, discovering myself and becoming one with myself. It does not look much now, it’s a little brighter of course but it now looks almost clinical except for the curtains.
M wandering.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
ICB
So what do those acronyms bring to mind? Ice Cold Beer, well perhaps but recently I came engaged in this acronym with a very different expansion (by the way that is the correct term to use with reference to acronyms – not just entertaining but educational as well...SO FULL!) Monday, October 20, 2008
10 days in the life of Notsurestofnamus Floragrenplantis
M going green.
Friday, October 17, 2008
Breakfast on the run
So what are my findings, well of course, I head to work a happier person that is for sure. Energy levels are much better and I do not feel that tired or exhausted during the midday. At night I get tired and sleep well, this is a huge bonus for me, as some people who participated in Sleepers Anonymous at Maccers would recall. All in all, that is the upside. Downside, hahaha, yes there is one. I did not go to the gym at all. Hmmmm…down side. Yes lah, downside. I feel that I have put on weight; yeah I think I am a little bloated, water retention maybe...
M wishful.
Saying Goodbye
Today after my bereavement training I realized that my inability to empathise is indeed worse than I expected or even had known. Almost to the point of insensitive. But, I am glad I had this opportunity to be under such great spiritual leadership from which I can learn so much.
All in all it was eye opening, I always believed in celebrating life and a person who leaves us although mournful at first we should rejoice that person's life and his/her addition to our lives.
Just that this was my thinking and it's not what everyone thinks. I guess I am at times too presumptuous. Well I am learning each day how to be better, not just in this area but in all.
Praise God for the school of life and to all my companions. That means YOU!
M Journeying.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Nothing like a good cuppa of Kopi in the morning, it puts things in perspective especially when faced with the sometimes daunting challenges ahead. In any case, sit back enjoy that cup and sometimes LIFE is so good that coffee is one thing that makes it better. Okay talking cock liao....
M satisfied!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Where is the love?
Car crazy I used to be but now I have resorted to the car wash at SPC rather than sending the car to the detailer. The love of cars is there but I guess the expression is more one of understanding and driving rather than cleaning to be honest. I still watch every episode of Top Gear and when I go to the magazine section I look for Car and F1 mags first and usually skip over the Maxims, FHMs, and whatever cheesy mags with skimpy laides they are pushing.Monday, October 13, 2008
Birthdays, bad news and Babylon 5
My FIL's birthday was celebrated with simplicity but lots of smiles and laughs. So while one family braced itself the other was relaxed and in high spirits. For me, I am just thankful for all things and I know that He is in charge.
As the world passes by my Babylon 5 download is still at 47.5% after one month of downloading. YMGC!
M waiting
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Sacred Food
But there is one dish from a paritcular corner of SG, which I have come to call sacred to me. Bar Chor Mee!
Friday, October 10, 2008
“Peace, be still!”

But for me being a converted optimist, I look at what happened after this picture that is important to me.
M Cool!
Lunch @ Sci Park
Here is one of my lunch staples. Well staple is going a bit too far, because it actually is Subway sandies. But when the Subway queue is too long and me being an impatient person will choose instead to get lunch from "So Fresh" which has somewhat become a little bit of an oxymoron when you have a look at what's on offer. So my favorite and basically the only thing I order when go there is Teriyaki Chicken Salad. Yes that is the official name on the menu. You may ask where the salad is, well it is hidden but believe me; the 2 sheets of lettuce, 3 pieces of broccoli and coleslaw is there.
So after eating this Teriyaki Chicken Salad, I thought why not photograph it to see if I can make it look nice so that it is more appetizing and appealing. You decide if I am making you hungry I succeeded. If you are turned off, well the conclusion is there is no way to make so-so food look good.
M eating.
Friday: Beautiful Day
What beautiful days Fridays are. Today is especially beautiful because indeed today is a glorious morning full of possibilities. So as Brad Pitt said in the movie Troy "Take it, it's yours!" It's rare to see cloudless skies in Singapore and when do I usually whip out my NV24HD camera (super camera by the way) to take advantage of the great photo opportunities. So here's one picture I just took on the way to work. Subject is boring, well being stuck in jam is boring, but the color tones are lovely.Rejoice people it's Friday and make the best of what this day has to offer!!!
I know I will!!
M Lovin it!
Thursday, October 09, 2008
Leakgaes, Leaves and Landownership
Not so, our beloved house is leaking again well that was what we were led to believe. So in the preparation for some minor roofing works and some hacking on the wall, something happened. Further investigation by the guys from B4 Leakage, it was found that the water that is appearing on our study room wall is not a result of leakage from the roof but, if fact condensation. Praise the Lord there is no leakage but "Huh?"
Seems our neighbour has his aircon in the adjacent room on at full blast, at maximum cooling pointing directly at the wall and on the other side of the wall is our study room which is the room with the most sun. So as a result my wall is "sweating" like a glass Bombay Tonic on a Saturday afternoon thus, explaining the wet spots and fungus. Solution? Aside from asking y niehbour to turn off his AC, which might rather selfish, there isn't one actually. Just a stop gap measure of painting the wall with a special epoxy paint that is used on roads to in a sense "waterproof" the walls and prevent the formation of wet spots. Prevention not cure.
So another half day of leave down and another episode on the joys of Landowership. But, in all consideration I know deep down that despite all the issues and whatever, I still love my house, the place I call home, my refuge and the place I will raise my family.
Contented M
[Second try at this after my initial post from my iPhone ran away to some corner of Cyberspace]
Back home safe and sound - Dream Team Re-united

most recent was going for a holiday without each other. Yes I was out
of leave or so I THOUGHT but there were avoidable reasons that I
succumbed to.
Oh well she is back and in all honesty I am glad she had a good time,
aside from some challenging days, Praise God for technology! So other
than restarting this blog and getting hit on by a male waiter from
Stewhaus(this one will be another entry for sure), the events were
predictable.
Whatever the case; Maju is back! Yippee!
M glad.
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Mobile blogging - Take 2
server problem or what?
Let's see attempto secondo.
Thanks,
Marcel
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Ferrari and Lollipops

Foilage
As gardens go, ours well not the best in the world but it is ours. Not like we are going to get feature in Garden Weekly anytime soon but, I think there is something to be proud of here. So recently we got ourselves some more plants. Yes it was time to spruce up our waning garden. But I must say I like the new plant (pictured) reminds me of an elphant ear. When we first moved into our "green" home, I was thinking to myself "Yes! I shall become the gardener who will be spending hours tending to my plants." But of course, that was just a little too ambitous for someone who detests getting his hands dirty a bit of a stupid contradiction really. Yeah I have an obessive complusive syndrome of washing my hands when they get dirty or smell. I just can't stand to get my hands dirty. Probably, the reason why I am one of the few Indians who does not like to use his hands to eat food, even Indian food for that matter. Another blog post here, me thinks!
M
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Dinner for ONE



